Age is a big factor in the dating world. When thinking of the major milestones in life, many singles will consider a certain age to be their deadline. As in, I’ll have met the love of my life by this age, and I’ll get married by this age, and everything will be all settled once I’m this age.
That isn’t always how it works out though. Romantic relationships can be unpredictable, life often takes sudden turns, and some people end up single in their 50s, 60s, and up.
Dating over 50 may not have been part of your plan, but it can be an exciting time to start a new chapter in life. All it takes is the right attitude and some smart strategies to build the relationships you deserve and desire. Here are a few tips for 50-somethings who want to make the most of their single status.
- Put Yourself Out There
We’re not getting any younger, right? So there’s no reason to spend time fretting alone at home if you’re serious about dating over 50. Go ahead and try all the ways you can to meet new people. Don’t be shy about getting out there. Follow your interests, and use all the resources you can find to help.
You’re not going to meet a partner while sitting at home. Go attend a book club. Download a senior dating app. Hire a matchmaker. Take action to put yourself out there and find the dating opportunities that are right for you.
2. Be Clear About Your Wants & Needs
One of the big advantages of dating in your 50s is that you have more of your lifestyle and goals established. You probably already know what suits you and what doesn’t when it comes to a relationship because you’ve been there, done that before.
Singles in their 50s often don’t want to waste time with incompatible dates and bad relationships, so it’s best to be honest from the jump about who you are and what you want.
If you’re looking for a long-term partner, then go ahead and say that. If you’re not ready to commit to a new person right away, then bring that up in conversation on those early dates or chats. Talk about your personal goals for senior life, and let your potential partner know what you have to offer.
3. Don’t Give Up
With the right guidance and tools, older singles should feel confident that they have date options at any age. Disappointments may happen along the way, but those should only be temporary roadblocks as long as you keep moving.
Whether you’re divorced, widowed, or never married, the modern dating world can offer you a fresh start and a lot of potential matches in the same age range – or younger, if that’s your preference.
Take your time exploring the different options out there and getting to know single people who fit your model of a dream date. You never know where the next conversation will take you!
Amber Brooks is chief editor for DatingAdvice.com and DatingNews.com. She has worked in the dating industry for nearly a decade and written over 1,800 articles about dating and relationships. Her insights have appeared in multiple publications, including the Urban Dater and The Washington Times.
