1. Believe it is possible. All things are possible for those that believe. Write the dream down and rehearse it daily until you begin to believe it. Address those belief systems that are blocking love.

2. Be self aware. This includes knowing your strengths – what do you have to offer in a relationship, what are your values, goals and ambitions. A person that can speak about themselves from a place of self awareness will be very impressive to someone else.

3. Become the love you desire. The question to ask yourself here is…’Am I the person in character looks and status, who the person I desire will desire? If so how so? And if not, identify the gaps and begin to work on them

4. Prepare, Plan and Pursue. As they say, no plan is a plan to fail. There is no time like the present to begin to be intentional about your love life. Work on yourself and begin to do the things you need to practically do to become who you need to be to attract the love of your dreams. Do you need to hire a matchmaker, a coach, join the gym, work on your character, your goals? Do it!

5. Step out. It goes without saying. After implementing all of the above steps you’ve got to get out there and start dating! If you need help navigating the dating world or getting intentional about dating. Get in touch with us at South Carolina Matchmakers we can help.