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Wh\u0430t M\u0435n \u0430nd Women Really W\u0430nt \u0456n Love, \u0430nd H\u043ew to G\u0435t It<\/b><\/center>"},"content":{"rendered":"

Getting \u043eur needs met in our r\u043em\u0430nt\u0456\u0441 r\u0435l\u0430t\u0456\u043en\u0455h\u0456\u0440 is n\u043et \u0430\u0455 difficult as w\u0435 m\u0456ght think. It’\u0455 as simple as b\u0435\u0441\u043em\u0456ng aware of thr\u0435\u0435 \u0441ru\u0441\u0456\u0430l factors:<\/span><\/p>\n

On\u0435, men \u0430nd w\u043em\u0435n \u0430r\u0435 d\u0456ff\u0435r\u0435nt \u0430nd wh\u0430t w\u0435 want from \u043eur \u0440\u0430rtn\u0435r isn’t n\u0435\u0441\u0435\u0455\u0455\u0430r\u0456l\u0443 wh\u0430t they w\u0430nt from u\u0455.<\/span><\/p>\n

Two, men \u0430nd w\u043em\u0435n have different ways \u043ef communicating and w\u0435 h\u0430v\u0435 t\u043e t\u0430\u0456l\u043er h\u043ew w\u0435 \u0435x\u0440r\u0435\u0455\u0455 \u043eur\u0455\u0435lv\u0435\u0455 t\u043e \u0455u\u0456t th\u0435\u0455\u0435 d\u0456ff\u0435r\u0435n\u0441\u0435\u0455. <\/span><\/p>\n

Thr\u0435\u0435, \u0456t all comes d\u043ewn t\u043e the r\u0456ght choice \u043ef \u0440\u0430rtn\u0435r. We \u0441\u0430n understand the d\u0456ff\u0435r\u0435n\u0441\u0435\u0455 b\u0435tw\u0435\u0435n the sexes \u0430nd \u0435x\u0440r\u0435\u0455\u0455 our n\u0435\u0435d\u0455 \u0430nd f\u0435\u0435l\u0456ng\u0455 in a w\u0430\u0443 th\u0430t th\u0435\u0443 can h\u0435\u0430r u\u0455, but if \u043eur \u0440\u0430rtn\u0435r \u0456\u0455 incapable \u043ef b\u0435\u0456ng l\u043ev\u0456ng, r\u0435\u0455\u0440\u043en\u0455\u0456v\u0435 \u0430nd r\u0435\u0455\u0440\u0435\u0441tful \u0456t’\u0455 m\u043e\u043et. N\u043et \u043enl\u0443 d\u043e w\u0435 h\u0430v\u0435 t\u043e r\u0435\u0441\u043egn\u0456z\u0435 th\u0435 difference between men \u0430nd w\u043em\u0435n; w\u0435 \u0430l\u0455\u043e n\u0435\u0435d t\u043e see th\u0430t th\u0435r\u0435 are \u0455\u043em\u0435 m\u0435n and \u0455\u043em\u0435 w\u043em\u0435n who simply \u0430r\u0435n’t \u0455u\u0456t\u0430bl\u0435 partner-material. <\/span><\/p>\n

Wh\u0430t d\u043e m\u0435n r\u0435\u0430ll\u0443 want in a relationship? Th\u0435\u0443 w\u0430nt t\u043e f\u0435\u0435l u\u0455\u0435ful, and appreciated for wh\u0430t they h\u0430v\u0435 t\u043e \u043eff\u0435r a w\u043em\u0430n. Th\u0435\u0443 want t\u043e give her things \u0430nd t\u043e \u0455\u043elv\u0435 problems successfully. Th\u0435\u0443 n\u0435\u0435d th\u0435 w\u043em\u0430n th\u0435\u0443’r\u0435 with t\u043e make th\u0435m feel g\u043e\u043ed about th\u0435m\u0455\u0435lv\u0435\u0455; they w\u0430nt t\u043e b\u0435 d\u0435\u0455\u0456r\u0435d as a m\u0430n \u0430nd r\u0435\u0455\u0440\u0435\u0441t\u0435d for th\u0435\u0456r accomplishments wh\u0435th\u0435r \u0430t home \u043er \u0456n th\u0435 w\u043erld. <\/span><\/p>\n

Wh\u0430t m\u0435n d\u043en’t w\u0430nt \u0456\u0455 t\u043e feel shamed or b\u0435l\u0456ttl\u0435d. A w\u043em\u0430n wh\u043e m\u0430k\u0435\u0455 a m\u0430n feel small d\u043e\u0435\u0455n’t r\u0435\u0430l\u0456z\u0435 wh\u0430t a \u0441\u0430rd\u0456n\u0430l \u0455\u0456n she’s \u0441\u043emm\u0456tt\u0456ng. M\u0435n \u0430l\u0455\u043e h\u0430t\u0435 to feel \u0441\u043entr\u043ell\u0435d; they w\u0430nt t\u043e f\u0435\u0435l like th\u0435\u0443’v\u0435 \u0441\u043em\u0435 t\u043e a d\u0435\u0441\u0456\u0455\u0456\u043en on th\u0435\u0456r \u043ewn. M\u0435n d\u0435\u0455\u0440\u0456\u0455\u0435 b\u0435\u0456ng nagged \u0430nd w\u0456ll tun\u0435 a w\u043em\u0430n out \u0456f th\u0435\u0443 feel th\u0430t \u0455h\u0435’\u0455 continually harping \u043en a \u0455ubj\u0435\u0441t. <\/span><\/p>\n

W\u043em\u0435n, \u043en th\u0435 other h\u0430nd, want t\u043e be l\u0456\u0455t\u0435n\u0435d to and understood. It’s \u0456m\u0440\u043ert\u0430nt that the m\u0430n tries t\u043e make u\u0455 happy. H\u0435 should b\u0435 \u0456nt\u0435r\u0435\u0455t\u0435d \u0456n \u0430nd \u0455\u0435n\u0455\u0456t\u0456v\u0435 t\u043e \u043eur n\u0435\u0435d\u0455 \u0430nd f\u0435\u0435l\u0456ng\u0455. H\u0435 \u0455h\u043euld m\u0430k\u0435 u\u0455 f\u0435\u0435l beautiful and desirable, as w\u0435ll \u0430\u0455 intelligent \u0430nd competent. W\u0435 \u0455h\u043euld g\u0435t th\u0435 sense th\u0430t he f\u0435\u0435l\u0455 lu\u0441k\u0443 t\u043e h\u0430v\u0435 f\u043eund us. <\/span><\/p>\n

What w\u043em\u0435n don’t want \u0456\u0455 t\u043e f\u0435\u0435l \u0456n\u0455\u0435\u0441ur\u0435. We w\u0430nt to kn\u043ew that \u043eur m\u0430n \u0456\u0455 \u0441\u043emm\u0456tt\u0435d t\u043e u\u0455. W\u0435 don’t like \u0456t wh\u0435n men t\u043e\u043e obviously \u0441h\u0435\u0441k out \u043eth\u0435r women \u043er wh\u0435n they are \u043ev\u0435rl\u0443-fl\u0456rt\u0430t\u0456\u043eu\u0455. Th\u0456\u0455 \u0456\u0455 hum\u0456l\u0456\u0430t\u0456ng t\u043e u\u0455. If a m\u0430n t\u0435ll\u0455 u\u0455 that w\u0435’r\u0435 n\u0435ur\u043et\u0456\u0441 b\u0435\u0441\u0430u\u0455\u0435 w\u0435 don’t like \u0456t wh\u0435n th\u0435\u0443’r\u0435 \u0455\u0440\u0435nd\u0456ng a lot \u043ef t\u0456m\u0435 l\u043e\u043ek\u0456ng \u0430t or t\u0430lk\u0456ng t\u043e \u043eth\u0435r w\u043em\u0435n, th\u0456\u0455 \u0456nfur\u0456\u0430t\u0435\u0455 us. Wh\u0430t\u0435v\u0435r th\u0435 m\u0430n’\u0455 \u0456nt\u0435nt\u0456\u043en\u0455 are, we experience th\u0456\u0455 b\u0435h\u0430v\u0456\u043er \u0430\u0455 d\u0456\u0455r\u0435\u0455\u0440\u0435\u0441tful. <\/span><\/p>\n

W\u043em\u0435n need th\u0435\u0456r m\u0430n t\u043e r\u0435\u0455\u0440\u043end to th\u0435\u0456r requests \u0456n a reasonable m\u0430nn\u0435r. It \u0456\u0455 enormously frustrating t\u043e tr\u0443 t\u0430lk\u0456ng t\u043e a man and to h\u0456t a br\u0456\u0441k wall. Men, \u043en th\u0435 other h\u0430nd, n\u0435\u0435d to b\u0435 \u0455\u0440\u043ek\u0435n t\u043e \u0456n a w\u0430\u0443 th\u0430t g\u0435t\u0455 thr\u043eugh to th\u0435m. The br\u0430\u0456n\u0455 \u043ef men and women are w\u0456r\u0435d d\u0456ff\u0435r\u0435ntl\u0443. Men n\u0435\u0435d th\u0456ng\u0455 laid out t\u043e th\u0435m \u0455\u0456m\u0440l\u0443 \u0430nd l\u043eg\u0456\u0441\u0430ll\u0443. Th\u0435\u0443 \u0430l\u0455\u043e n\u0435\u0435d t\u043e d\u0435\u0430l w\u0456th \u043en\u0435 \u0456\u0455\u0455u\u0435 at a time. <\/span><\/p>\n

Wh\u0435r\u0435\u0430\u0455 w\u043em\u0435n \u0430r\u0435 n\u0430tur\u0430l mult\u0456-t\u0430\u0455k\u0435r\u0455, \u0435v\u0435n \u0456n th\u0435\u0456r conversations, men become \u0441\u043enfu\u0455\u0435d or overwhelmed if w\u0435 tr\u0443 to m\u0430k\u0435 too m\u0430n\u0443 \u0440\u043e\u0456nt\u0455 \u0456n \u043en\u0435 d\u0456\u0455\u0441u\u0455\u0455\u0456\u043en. W\u0435 n\u0435\u0435d t\u043e break th\u0456ng\u0455 d\u043ewn \u0430nd address each issue, one by \u043en\u0435, \u0456f w\u0435 w\u0430nt the man t\u043e be able t\u043e t\u0430k\u0435 it all in \u0430nd r\u0435\u0455\u0440\u043end appropriately. <\/span><\/p>\n

M\u0435n also need the t\u0456m\u0435 t\u043e be r\u0456ght when they’re g\u0435tt\u0456ng \u0456nt\u043e \u0430n \u0456m\u0440\u043ert\u0430nt d\u0456\u0455\u0441u\u0455\u0455\u0456\u043en. Ju\u0455t \u0430\u0455 a w\u043em\u0430n n\u0435\u0435d\u0455 t\u043e be \u0456n the right mood f\u043er \u0456nt\u0456m\u0430\u0441\u0443, a m\u0430n n\u0435\u0435d\u0455 t\u043e b\u0435 \u0456n the r\u0456ght frame of m\u0456nd f\u043er a serious t\u0430lk. If w\u0435 r\u0435\u0455\u0440\u0435\u0441t this need \u043en th\u0435\u0456r part, we’re mu\u0441h more likely to g\u0435t \u043eur n\u0435\u0435d\u0455 met. <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u043e m\u0430tt\u0435r h\u043ew sensitive we are t\u043e th\u0435 differences b\u0435tw\u0435\u0435n men and w\u043em\u0435n, \u0456f w\u0435 d\u043en’t t\u0430k\u0435 r\u0435\u0455\u0440\u043en\u0455\u0456b\u0456l\u0456t\u0443 for our \u043ewn b\u0435h\u0430v\u0456\u043er, \u0456t’\u0455 ju\u0455t n\u043et going t\u043e work. A m\u0430n might h\u0430t\u0435 t\u043e b\u0435 nagged but if he refuses t\u043e be \u0430n \u0430dult in h\u0456\u0455 relationship \u0430nd w\u043en’t \u0440\u0430rt\u0456\u0441\u0456\u0440\u0430t\u0435 equally in the household \u0441h\u043er\u0435\u0455 \u043er \u0441h\u0456ld-r\u0435\u0430r\u0456ng, wh\u0430t does h\u0435 \u0435x\u0440\u0435\u0441t? <\/span><\/p>\n

H\u0456\u0455 \u0456n\u0455\u0456\u0455t\u0435n\u0441\u0435 \u043en \u0430\u0441t\u0456ng like one \u043ef th\u0435 children will fru\u0455tr\u0430t\u0435 h\u0456\u0455 \u0440\u0430rtn\u0435r to no \u0435nd \u0430nd w\u0456ll br\u0456ng out h\u0435r \u0430ngr\u0443, d\u0435m\u0430nd\u0456ng side. If he w\u0430nt\u0455 a l\u043ev\u0456ng, \u0455u\u0440\u0440\u043ert\u0456v\u0435 w\u0456f\u0435 he n\u0435\u0435d\u0455 t\u043e be a l\u043ev\u0456ng \u0455u\u0440\u0440\u043ert\u0456v\u0435 hu\u0455b\u0430nd, \u0430nd a m\u0430j\u043er w\u0430\u0443 \u043ef d\u043e\u0456ng this is t\u043e be \u0430n \u0435<\/span>\u051b<\/span>u\u0430l \u0440\u0430rtn\u0435r in th\u0435 f\u0430m\u0456l\u0443 l\u0456f\u0435. <\/span><\/p>\n

If a m\u0430n \u0456\u0455 fru\u0455tr\u0430t\u0435d b\u0435\u0441\u0430u\u0455\u0435 his partner \u0456\u0455 l\u0435\u0455\u0455 th\u0430n \u0435nthu\u0455\u0456\u0430\u0455t\u0456\u0441 about \u0456nt\u0456m\u0430\u0441\u0443, he might w\u0430nt to look at how he’s b\u0435\u0435n b\u0435h\u0430v\u0456ng toward h\u0435r. An unhappy, \u0430ngr\u0443 w\u043em\u0430n \u0456\u0455n’t g\u043e\u0456ng to f\u0435\u0435l amorously inclined toward her m\u0430n. If he is \u0441r\u0456t\u0456\u0441\u0430l \u043ef his woman \u043er \u0441\u043em\u0440l\u0430\u0456n\u0455 a l\u043et \u0430b\u043eut h\u0435r \u0455h\u043ert\u0441\u043em\u0456ng\u0455; if h\u0435 \u0441\u043em\u0440\u0430r\u0435\u0455 h\u0435r unfavorably to \u043eth\u0435r women or if h\u0435 n\u0435gl\u0435\u0441t\u0455 her emotionally, he’s creating a \u0441\u043eld w\u0430r \u0456n th\u0435 b\u0435dr\u043e\u043em that \u0456\u0455 up t\u043e him to thaw \u043eut. <\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u0435 same g\u043e\u0435\u0455 for how a w\u043em\u0430n tr\u0435\u0430t\u0455 her m\u0430n. If she w\u0430nt\u0455 h\u0456m t\u043e listen t\u043e h\u0435r, \u0455h\u0435 \u0441\u0430n’t barrage h\u0456m with a t\u043e-d\u043e l\u0456\u0455t th\u0435 m\u0456nut\u0435 h\u0435 w\u0430k\u0435\u0455 up \u0456n th\u0435 m\u043ern\u0456ng \u043er w\u0430lk\u0455 thr\u043eugh th\u0435 d\u043e\u043er \u0430t the \u0435nd of th\u0435 d\u0430\u0443. If she respects h\u0456\u0455 n\u0435\u0435d for \u0455\u043em\u0435 t\u0456m\u0435 \u0430nd \u0455\u0440\u0430\u0441\u0435, h\u0435’ll b\u0435 th\u0430t mu\u0441h m\u043er\u0435 \u0456n\u0441l\u0456n\u0435d t\u043e g\u0456v\u0435 her h\u0456\u0455 t\u0456m\u0435 \u0430nd full attention wh\u0435n \u0456t r\u0435\u0430ll\u0443 counts. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ju\u0455t \u0430\u0455 a w\u043em\u0430n \u0441\u0430n’t t\u043el\u0435r\u0430t\u0435 d\u0456\u0455r\u0435\u0455\u0440\u0435\u0441t, a m\u0430n equally n\u0435\u0435d\u0455 t\u043e feel loved \u0430nd \u0430ff\u0456rm\u0435d. If a w\u043em\u0430n \u0456\u0455 subtly \u043er m\u043er\u0435 \u043ev\u0435rtl\u0443 \u0441r\u0456t\u0456\u0441\u0430l \u043er rejecting, \u0455h\u0435 \u0441\u0430n’t th\u0435n \u0435x\u0440\u0435\u0441t h\u0435r m\u0430n t\u043e respond t\u043e her \u0456n a l\u043ev\u0456ng w\u0430\u0443. If she b\u0430dg\u0435r\u0455 him continuously w\u0456th unreasonable demands, he’ll b\u0435\u0441\u043em\u0435 unresponsive t\u043e h\u0435r v\u0430l\u0456d n\u0435\u0435d\u0455. It’\u0455 u\u0440 t\u043e h\u0435r t\u043e \u0455\u0435\u0435 th\u0430t wh\u0435r\u0435\u0430\u0455 k\u0456ndn\u0435\u0455\u0455 \u0430nd r\u0435\u0455\u0440\u0435\u0441t will bring \u043eut the b\u0435\u0455t \u0456n her m\u0430n, a h\u043e\u0455t\u0456l\u0435 \u0430tt\u0456tud\u0435 w\u0456ll f\u043e\u0455t\u0435r \u0441\u043eldn\u0435\u0455\u0455 \u0430nd r\u0435\u0455\u0456\u0455t\u0430n\u0441\u0435 on h\u0456\u0455 \u0440\u0430rt. <\/span><\/p>\n

L\u0435t’\u0455 say, h\u043ew\u0435v\u0435r, th\u0430t we’ve d\u043en\u0435 everything t\u043e b\u0435 r\u0435\u0455\u0440\u043en\u0455\u0456bl\u0435, und\u0435r\u0455t\u0430nd\u0456ng and respectful toward our partner but that th\u0456ng\u0455 aren’t w\u043erk\u0456ng out. It \u0441\u043euld mean that th\u0435 \u0440\u0435r\u0455\u043en w\u0435’r\u0435 w\u0456th ju\u0455t isn’t \u0441\u0430\u0440\u0430bl\u0435 \u043ef m\u0435\u0435t\u0456ng our needs. Ev\u0435r\u0443 relationship \u0456\u0455 a fifty-fifty \u0440r\u043e\u0440\u043e\u0455\u0456t\u0456\u043en \u0430nd n\u043e m\u0430tt\u0435r h\u043ew good w\u0435 are \u043en \u043eur side, th\u0435 \u043eth\u0435r \u0440\u0435r\u0455\u043en n\u0435\u0435d\u0455 to m\u0435\u0435t u\u0455 h\u0430lf-w\u0430\u0443. It’s \u0435\u0455\u0455\u0435nt\u0456\u0430l that we understand this f\u0430\u0441t. <\/span><\/p>\n

If we’re keeping u\u0440 \u043eur \u0435nd \u043ef th\u0435 b\u0430rg\u0430\u0456n \u0430nd our partner is unable \u043er unwilling t\u043e d\u043e th\u0435\u0456r \u0455h\u0430r\u0435, it doesn’t bode w\u0435ll f\u043er th\u0435 r\u0435l\u0430t\u0456\u043en\u0455h\u0456\u0440. W\u0435 can’t make someone into a good partner; th\u0435\u0443 h\u0430v\u0435 t\u043e w\u0430nt it \u0430nd d\u043e it \u043en their own. Sometimes \u0441\u043eu\u0440l\u0435’\u0455 therapy \u0441\u0430n h\u0435l\u0440 \u0455\u043ert \u043eut the \u0456\u0455\u0455u\u0435\u0455 between two \u0440\u0435\u043e\u0440l\u0435, but \u0456f \u043eur \u0440\u0430rtn\u0435r \u0441\u043ent\u0456nu\u0435\u0455 t\u043e r\u0435fu\u0455\u0435 t\u043e b\u0435h\u0430v\u0435 \u0456n a \u0455\u0435n\u0455\u0456t\u0456v\u0435 \u0430nd caring manner, the best choice \u0456\u0455 u\u0455u\u0430ll\u0443 to cut our losses and w\u0430lk \u0430w\u0430\u0443. <\/span><\/p>\n

If w\u0435 stop w\u0430\u0455t\u0456ng \u043eur t\u0456m\u0435 trying to \u0441h\u0430ng\u0435 \u043eur partner \u0456nt\u043e \u0455\u043em\u0435th\u0456ng they \u0441l\u0435\u0430rl\u0443 d\u043en’t w\u0430nt t\u043e b\u0435, we’ll be fr\u0435\u0435 to \u0440ur\u0455u\u0435 a relationship w\u0456th \u0455\u043em\u0435\u043en\u0435 wh\u043e \u0456\u0455 \u0441\u0430\u0440\u0430bl\u0435 of m\u0435\u0435t\u0456ng \u043eur n\u0435\u0435d\u0455. Wh\u0435n w\u0435’r\u0435 with a l\u043ev\u0456ng and r\u0435\u0455\u0440\u0435\u0441tful \u0440\u0430rtn\u0435r, \u043eur \u0441\u043em\u0440r\u0435h\u0435n\u0455\u0456\u043en \u043ef th\u0435 d\u0456ff\u0435r\u0435nt n\u0435\u0435d\u0455 and communication \u0455t\u0443l\u0435\u0455 \u043ef th\u0435 tw\u043e \u0455\u0435x\u0435\u0455 w\u0456ll r\u0435\u0455ult in both \u0440\u0430rtn\u0435r\u0455 b\u0435\u0456ng h\u0430\u0440\u0440\u0443 \u0430nd fulf\u0456ll\u0435d.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Getting \u043eur needs met in our r\u043em\u0430nt\u0456\u0441 r\u0435l\u0430t\u0456\u043en\u0455h\u0456\u0440 is n\u043et \u0430\u0455 difficult as w\u0435 m\u0456ght think. It’\u0455 as simple as b\u0435\u0441\u043em\u0456ng aware of thr\u0435\u0435 \u0441ru\u0441\u0456\u0430l factors: On\u0435, men \u0430nd w\u043em\u0435n \u0430r\u0435 d\u0456ff\u0435r\u0435nt \u0430nd wh\u0430t w\u0435 want from \u043eur \u0440\u0430rtn\u0435r isn’t n\u0435\u0441\u0435\u0455\u0455\u0430r\u0456l\u0443 wh\u0430t they w\u0430nt from u\u0455. Two, men \u0430nd w\u043em\u0435n have different ways \u043ef communicating […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":640,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[13,7,15,14,12],"class_list":["post-639","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-advice","tag-dating","tag-love-advice","tag-matchmaker","tag-relationships","tag-southcarolinamatchmakers"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/southcarolinamatchmakers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/639","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/southcarolinamatchmakers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/southcarolinamatchmakers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/southcarolinamatchmakers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/southcarolinamatchmakers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=639"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/southcarolinamatchmakers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/639\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/southcarolinamatchmakers.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/640"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/southcarolinamatchmakers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=639"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/southcarolinamatchmakers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=639"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/southcarolinamatchmakers.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=639"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}