by scmatchmakers | Jan 1, 2024 | Ask the Matchmaker, Best Matchmaker, Holidays
As the calendar turns, many of us find ourselves embarking on a journey of self-improvement, commonly known as New Year’s resolutions. While these resolutions often focus on tangible goals like hitting the gym more frequently or saving money, there’s one aspect of our lives that often gets overlooked: dating. Instead of setting rigid resolutions this year, why not take a more introspective approach by prioritizing growth and reflection in your dating life?
At South Carolina Matchmakers, we understand the significance of personal growth when it comes to finding meaningful connections. Rather than fixating on external benchmarks of success, we encourage our clients to delve deeper into their own emotional intelligence and self-awareness. Here are some ways to embrace growth and reflection in your dating journey this New Year:
- Explore Your Values: Take some time to reflect on your core values and what truly matters to you in a partner. Are you looking for someone who shares your passion for adventure, or perhaps someone who values honesty above all else? Understanding your own values will help guide you in finding a compatible partner who aligns with your vision for the future.
- Practice Self-Compassion: Dating can be challenging, and it’s easy to be hard on yourself when things don’t go as planned. Instead of dwelling on perceived shortcomings or past mistakes, practice self-compassion and kindness. Treat yourself with the same empathy and understanding that you would offer to a close friend facing similar struggles.
- Step Out of Your Comfort Zone: Growth often occurs outside of our comfort zones, so don’t be afraid to try new things in your dating life. Whether it’s trying a matchmaker, trying a new hobby, or initiating a conversation with someone you find intriguing, pushing yourself beyond familiar boundaries can lead to personal growth and unexpected connections.
- Reflect on Past Relationships: Take some time to reflect on past relationships and the lessons you’ve learned from them. What patterns or behaviors have contributed to the success or failure of your relationships in the past? Use these insights to inform your approach to future connections and to avoid repeating past mistakes.
- Cultivate Authentic Connections: In a world dominated by superficiality and online dating apps, prioritize authenticity in your interactions with others. Be genuine in expressing your intentions and interests, and seek out partners who value authenticity as much as you do. Authentic connections are built on mutual respect, honesty, and vulnerability.
- Focus on Personal Growth: Ultimately, the most fulfilling relationships are those that complement and support our own personal growth journeys. Instead of seeking validation or fulfillment from external sources, focus on cultivating a strong sense of self and pursuing your own passions and interests. When you prioritize personal growth, you’ll attract partners who appreciate and admire your authenticity and ambition.
This New Year, let’s shift our focus from rigid resolutions to a mindset of growth and reflection in our dating lives. By embracing our own personal evolution and nurturing authentic connections, we can create meaningful relationships that enrich our lives and bring us closer to finding the love we deserve. At South Carolina Matchmakers, we’re here to support you every step of the way on your journey to finding lasting love.
by scmatchmakers | Jan 7, 2020 | Ask the Matchmaker, Best Matchmaker, Uncategorized
Our hearts are happy when our wonderful South Carolina Matchmakers matches fall in love and get married.
Helping our clients find their forever soulmate is an amazing adventure – sometimes taking us and them on a ride we never saw coming. Donna, our Matchmaker, worked hard to ensure that these two Hilton Head clients were successful. “First date feedback from both of them was that the date was great and months later a follow up call revealed that Nick and June fell in love. Nick had popped the question & now the two were happily married. Our ultimate goal would be for all of our client’s stories to end this way.” Donna admits, ” an even bigger reward is to know that we are changing people’s lives for the better in so many ways.”
“We help clients with the task of getting ready for love.” Jennifer J. Hayes, a relationship expert and dating coach for South Carolina Matchmakers describes herself as the “go-between” to making love happen.”If they are open and also willing to work on themselves, than it makes it easier to be successful in love.We want every single person we work with to find what they came to us for and that’s always at the top of our priority list.”
Nick and June were both open and ready for love so their success was inevitable. South Carolina Matchmakers of Hilton Head and the entire South Carolina Matchmakers Staff would like to wish Nick and June years of happiness.
by scmatchmakers | Jul 5, 2018 | Best Matchmaker
Love is always something good and worth celebrating and this month we are celebrating one of our amazing couples!
Cynthia Greene, South Carolina Matchmakers Executive Matchmaker, got the great privilege of attending the couples nuptials. She was over the moon to receive an invite and reflects back on meeting them both prior to their engagement. “Shawne and Doug are a great example of two people who set their intentions clearly and then committed to the matchmaking process. In the very beginning Doug verbally told me, ‘I am looking for a serious relationship, I want to get married.’ He let his matchmaking journey be an adventure with each new match staying focused on the end result.” Shawne’s story wasn’t much different Cynthia explains, “Shawne had a great mentality. She wasn’t narrow-minded about her idea of Mr. Right. She was open to the process of meeting someone her matchmaker felt aligned with her personality, character, and lifestyle. They both remained very open about what they were looking for but both agreed that if the match was the one, the end result would be marriage. Flowers on the first date, meeting the parents, an engagement and the rest is history!
The excited pair planned a wedding weekend with their family, friends, and South Carolina Matchmakers, Cynthia Greene, said it was a day she will never forget. Open hearts and open minds are the holy grail of matchmaking. Of course, fostering those two qualities takes time and mindful effort. But together, the two can promote blissful connections and make our job as matchmakers fruitful and so rewarding.
by scmatchmakers | Nov 22, 2017 | Best Matchmaker
We are ecstatic to announce that South Carolina Matchmakers, Jennifer J. Hayes, was nominated for Best Matchmaker 2018 at the renowned international iDate awards in Miami. iDate is the most prestigious global awards in the dating calendar and consider by many The Oscars of the Dating world. The ceremony has a global reach and draws in the top elite in the matchmaking industry.
“Being nominated is an honor and it says so much about the amazing, dedicated staff we have here at South Carolina Matchmakers. All of us are extremely passionate about forever changing the lives of our clients for the better. A big thank you to everyone that contributed to us being nominated.” Jennifer J. Hayes, Director of Operations
