How Important Are Looks In A Relationship?

How Important Are Looks In A Relationship?

As, South Carolina Matchmakers we are constantly reminding our clients on the importance of not judging a person based off looks alone. Although physical attraction can bring two people together it will not keep them together. Have you ever seen a happy couple walking down the street and found yourself wondering, “Why is she with him?” or “What does he see in her?” The thing is, romantic relationships run much deeper than physical appearances. Chemistry is a huge factor, as well as personality and the fact that people are attracted to different aesthetics. Most people who are worth investing your time in are looking far beyond the surface of physical appearance. Jennifer J. Hayes, from South Carolina Matchmakers says “Such requests we make of our clients, as matchmakers, could be difficult at times.  No one will conveniently agree to let someone manage their love life and even go to the extent of arranging dates for them, with potential matches which they have never met.  For such arrangements to work out in this digital dating age, most clients need serious assurance, which is precisely what we provide at South Carolina Matchmakers. Read more here and find out why looks are overrated.
Matchmaker Wisdom: Valentine’s Day Is Not Just For Women

Matchmaker Wisdom: Valentine’s Day Is Not Just For Women

Ever wonder why men hate Valentine’s Day as much as women love it? When it comes to this day of love, women think it’s all about them. Men are supposed to give flowers, jewelry, chocolates, and plan an elaborate date while women are barely expected to give a card. Years of this lopsided display of affection is enough to drive any man crazy. The solution is simple: share the love. Instead of expecting gifts and affirmation, show your man how much you value and appreciate him.

There are dozens of sites that provide Valentine’s Day gift suggestions based on the interests of your guy, but women often spend unnecessary time and money gifting something their man didn’t really want. Take preventative measures by asking your partner what he wants. Treat Valentine’s Day as you would any other holiday and give out of love and not obligation.

February 14 is the day chosen to celebrate love worldwide. This however shouldn’t be the only time of year you make an effort to show your significant other how much you love and appreciate him. With children, work and responsibilities, it’s easy to get caught in the routine of life and take your loved one for granted. Valentine’s Day is meant to remind us of the love we have for one another, and I’m reminding you to take care of your man.

There’s no denying that women should be celebrated and appreciated for all that we do, but the day of love should never be about one person. Love doesn’t work that way, so I encourage you to share the love on Valentine’s Day.

Interracial relationships :  Get Advice from the Best Experts in the Relationship industry.

Interracial relationships : Get Advice from the Best Experts in the Relationship industry.

It’s been 52 years since United States Supreme Court passed Loving v. Virginia’s anti-miscegenation laws, that day is remembered annually on Loving Day. Now, partners of different racial backgrounds no longer need to hide their relationships for fear of legal persecution. But while things have changed socially, there’s still a lot missing from the conversation surrounding interracial relationships. The country has a long way to go in terms of racial discourse, period. In the case of interracial dating, there are still huge stereotypes, misconceptions, and presumptions about what it means to date someone with a different race so 80 relationship experts including our very own, Jennifer J. Hayes, relationship & dating practitioner from South Carolina Matchmakers, gives us their knowledge and advice on handling interracial relationships. Read more here.