Make Your First Date Fun!

by | Apr 21, 2023 | Ask the Matchmaker

 

Going on a first date can be a nerve-wracking experience for many people. The pressure to impress your date and make a good first impression can be overwhelming, and the traditional dinner date can add to that pressure. That’s why thinking outside the box and planning a more unique and fun first date can be a great way to break the ice and relieve some of that pressure. In this article, we will explore some out of the box dating ideas that you can try on your first date.

  1. Take a hike: Instead of sitting across from each other at a restaurant, why not take a hike together? This activity not only gets you moving and active, but also allows you to have some beautiful views and a peaceful atmosphere to chat and get to know each other. Make sure to pick a trail that is suitable for your fitness levels and bring plenty of water and snacks.
  2. Have a picnic: Another great way to enjoy the outdoors and get to know each other is by having a picnic. You can choose a scenic location, prepare a delicious spread of food and drinks, and enjoy the sunshine together. It’s a low-pressure activity that allows you to relax and enjoy each other’s company in a beautiful setting.
  3. Attend a cooking class: If you both love food, then attending a cooking class together can be a fun and unique way to spend your first date. You can learn how to prepare a new dish together and then enjoy it as a meal afterwards. It’s a great way to bond over a shared interest and learn something new.
  4. Play mini-golf or go bowling: If you’re looking for a more active and playful date, then mini-golf or bowling can be a great choice. It’s a fun and casual way to spend time together, and you can show off your competitive side while enjoying some laughs and good-natured teasing.
  5. Volunteer together: If you both are passionate about giving back to the community, then volunteering together can be a great first date option. You can choose a cause that you’re both interested in and spend the day making a positive impact together. It’s a great way to see each other’s values and priorities, and it can also be a bonding experience.
  6. Attend a live music or comedy show: If you want to enjoy some entertainment together, then attending a live music or comedy show can be a great idea. It’s a low-pressure way to enjoy each other’s company while also enjoying the performance. You can even discuss the show afterwards over drinks or dessert.
  7. Visit a museum or art gallery: If you’re looking for a more intellectual and cultural date, then visiting a museum or art gallery can be a great choice. You can discuss the exhibits, learn something new, and enjoy each other’s company while surrounded by beauty and history.

In conclusion, there are many out of the box dating ideas that you can try on your first date. The key is to choose an activity that you both enjoy and that allows you to have fun and get to know each other without too much pressure. Whether it’s hiking, picnicking, attending a cooking class, playing mini-golf, volunteering together, attending a live performance, or visiting a museum, there are many ways to make your first date a memorable and enjoyable experience. So, get creative and have fun!

 

Why Hire South Carolina Matchmakers?

Why Hire South Carolina Matchmakers?

by | Mar 30, 2022 | Ask the Matchmaker

1. What you’re doing just isn’t working

You have no problem finding dates on your own, but you’re just not meeting the right type of people. Maybe you’re devoting a lot of time to online dating or going to bars but haven’t met accomplished, educated, honest, commitment-minded singles. Maybe you keep dating the wrong type of person, choosing poorly for yourself. Whatever the reason, your current approach to dating just isn’t working. Don’t worry, we can help!

2. Personal service

We believe that hiring an expert, a personal matchmaker, is the best way to optimize your time and find a compatible match. Our approach is a personal one. We form relationships with our clients and their potential dates. When we make matches, we use old-fashioned intuition based on our understanding of each person and what they desire in a partner. Nothing can replace the personal touch that we offer.

So, while you tend to the business of your life, we get to work finding, screening, investigating and personally interviewing your potential dates. In essence, we date them first to see if they are a good fit for you. We will not make an introduction until we feel we have a potential life-partner who is everything you are looking for. We won’t waste a minute of your valuable time.

3. We are experts

Our savvy clients understand the value in hiring an expert, whether investing in a stock portfolio, buying real estate or recruiting the most qualified employees for their business. So, why not hire an expert to find the love of your life?

As your matchmaker, we become your personal agent, in effect your headhunter. Not only will we consider other clients, we will utilize our extensive database to find matches who meet your criteria, we will actively recruit, network, and may even advertise (discreetly of course) to find you a perfect match. We will do whatever it takes to find exceptional matches with the specific qualities you desire.

4. We date them before you do… and they have to dazzle us!

Each potential match is required to meet with us for an extensive face-to-face interview. We dig deep, taking the time to know each person intimately in order to facilitate excellent matches for our clients. We know that you’re a great catch and can be selective about who you date. Therefore, your potential dates have to dazzle us before we will consider introducing them to you… and we’re not easily impressed!

5. Valuable Feedback

We ask our clients and their matches to give us feedback after each date. This enables us to better understand what you are looking for and to refine our search. Feedback provides you with valuable insight that will help you to become more successful when dating in the future. This is a rare opportunity to learn how you are perceived on a date.

6. Put your best foot forward – Helping you along the way!

Once we find you an amazing match, we want you to make a great impression! If you would like our advice on your appearance, dating etiquette or any other aspect of dating, we are here for you. Your success is our success, so we will do whatever it takes to make sure you find (and keep) the love of your life!

7. Safety

Your safety is paramount; therefore we provide extensive background investigations to ensure you meet safe, quality individuals.

8. You will meet commitment-minded singles

When people have paid for the services of a matchmaker, or taken the time to meet with one personally, they have a vested interest in finding a life-partner. Big dating services will represent clients looking for casual dates. We won’t. Our clients and free members are ready to commit to long-term relationships.

9. You’re too busy

If you’re like most Charlestonians, you’re too busy to read through hundreds of online personal ads, email back and forth with potential matches, spend time chatting on the phone or hanging out at bars. A lot of work goes into finding a quality person to date. Wouldn’t you rather we invest our time?

10. You are reserved or shy

By nature, you’re reserved or shy and prefer to meet someone in a more intimate setting. You don’t enjoy meat markets like bars and singles events.

11. Deception

One of the most common complaints about on-line dating is that people misrepresent themselves. We want to make sure there will be no unpleasant surprises. We offer background checks which verify identity and age. We personally meet with everyone we work with to ensure that they are sincere. We have a no tolerance for lying policy. One lie, and we will not represent a client or member. We will make sure you are meeting sincere, honest, quality people.

12. Confidentiality

Charleston, SC is a somewhat large city, but it’s also a small town. News travels fast and gossip spreads like wildfire. Why post your picture on-line when you can be discreetly represented by us? No one needs to know about your dating life but you. Your privacy is our priority.